Monday, February 16, 2015

The Birthday Prince

On February 11th, we celebrated our little man's official first birthday. The last year of our lives has been filled with more dirty diapers, late-night wake-up calls, kisses and love than I have ever known.  I would be lying if I said it wasn't a challenge, but it has also been the most amazing year of our lives. Cody and I have really found ourselves in this adventure of parenthood, and while we've been tested both individually and together, I truly believe that it has made us and our love for each other and Hayes even stronger. We often say that no one ever tells you the many surprises that come with welcoming your first child into the world. Parenthood is like a secret society for the strong. While this may be true, we count ourselves truly blessed that God has entrusted us with the life of Hayes William, and we just pray daily that we would continue to be the best examples for him of the unconditional love, grace and mercy that God shows to us daily.

I was fortunate to be able to take the day off of work to spend with Hayes, so we kicked off the morning with a yummy French Toast breakfast, complete with powdered sugar, strawberries and bananas. I decided we'll go ahead and make this a tradition, as Hayes seemed to love his French Toast just as much as his mommy and daddy do! I must admit there was no shortage of sugar on Hayes Man's birthday, but hey, that's what birthdays are for, right? After breakfast we got dressed and took Rio for a walk around the neighborhood and played ball outside for a while. I made it my goal to spend as much of the day as possible outside, which is Hayes' most favorite place. After a good, long nap, Hayes feasted on a lunch of chicken, mac and cheese and peas, followed by birthday cake promptly at 12:48 PM, the time he was born. After lunch we met MiMi at Pendleton Park for a walk and some good conversation, followed by a trip to Brownsville with Daddy to the Children's Museum and Zoo. We wrapped up the day of celebrating with a yummy dinner at Chili's where Hayes feasted on man food-- baby back ribs, sweet potato fries and vanilla ice cream. It was a busy and exciting day for our birthday boy, and he loved every minute!

 Let the celebration begin... French Toast fit for a prince!

 All boy! Playing ball outside.

Now if only we could get him to keep his baseball cap on. We'll work on that.

  
Cake at 12:48 PM!
In the words of Hayes... "Mum!"

 Walking with MiMi

 Brownsville Children's Museum



 Daddy's contribution to the light wall at the Children's Museum. Brainwashing Influencing the kids of the Rio Grande Valley, one toy at a time. :)

 Getting in on the action!

 There was a cloud simulator at the Museum that Hayes just loved. He also met a cute 4 year old little girl who really enjoyed his company. He was so sweet and gave her hugs the whole time we were there!

Now on to the zoo...


 Giving the goats some love. Hayes kept saying "Ruh Ruh" when he petted them.

 Feast for the birthday prince. Mommy was happy to share her plate with him, and he sure loved it.

We love you, little man, and can't wait for all of the adventures that year two will hold!


Horseplay for HWJ

The weekend before Hayes turned the big "1", we celebrated his birthday in the utmost Southern Style with a Kentucky Derby themed party. I channeled my inner Pinterista and became one with all kinds of Pinterest craft ideas for the event. I was also really excited that the date of the party ended up being February 7th, which would have been my Granddaddy's birthday. I had hoped Hayes would be born on that day, but the next best thing was hosting a horse racing party to celebrate his first year of life! Mom, Dad and Kirby came down and I couldn't have set everything up without them or my amazing husband. We had lots of friends and family come celebrate Hayes and it was such a fun day. Not to mention we were blessed with the most amazing, warm weather... that doesn't just happen in Texas in February! Thank you to everyone who helped celebrate our little man. Hayes is truly loved beyond measure!


































The same weekend happened to be the first weekend that our church held a baby dedication ceremony, which was perfect timing since our family was already in town. We were thrilled to have the opportunity to dedicate our little man to the Lord and have family and friends pray for him in a very special service. Much to our surprise, Hayes slept through the ceremony... snored in fact! He could not have been sweeter and we are so thankful for the sweet miracle that God blessed us with in him.


One Year!

"I'm clapping because this is the last time you're going to make me pose for one of these monthly pictures. Right?"

Weight: 23 lbs 7 oz.(confirmed at 12 mo. checkup)
Height: 29 3/4 inches
Loves: Hayes Man still loves becoming one with nature above all activities. As soon as we get home from school/work each day, he scoots himself to the back door and starts banging until we take him out to swing. He has also developed quite an affinity for playing fetch with his puppy brother. It is the cutest thing ever to watch him hold the dirty tennis ball and then throw it as hard as he can for Rio to fetch. Rio is such a good sport and fetches it (even if it's right in front of him), promptly returning it to his littlest master. Hayes claps and we yell "Go, Rio, Go!" every time Mommy or Daddy throw it far, too. It is so much fun to watch our boys interact and play together. Rio hasn't quite grasped the concept that he doesn't get a snack just because Hayes does, but I think we are making progress in the human vs. animal department at least. I have to say it's pretty entertaining to be cooking dinner and look down and see both of them begging for a taste of whatever I'm working on. Naturally, I appease them with a bite of cheese most evenings, as any good mom would do. Hayes still loves to scoot EVERYWHERE and has gotten really good at leaning forward and propelling himself with his hands as he scoots on his booty. He is pulling up on most everything now and taking a few steps with the assistance of any piece of furniture within his grasp. He is even getting brave enough to remove one hand and stand 50% independently... Mommy is bracing herself for our world to get rocked, as I feel the first steps are right around the corner. :) Hayes still loves to read books and can even turn them right-side-up if they are upside down. He will often start "reading" them himself and loves to turn the pages when I am reading to him. Hayes loves to talk on the phone and will pretend most toys are a phone, holding them up to his ear and saying "eh?". Think we talk on the phone a little in our house? Haha.
Sleep: Hayes still sleeps great at night for the most part. He has been waking up coughing lately so Mommy will get up and give him water, which results in a short rocking session before laying back down and going to sleep, but I won't lie- I'm treasuring those few minutes each night since most of the time this kid is WAY too busy to snuggle. Hayes is still napping twice a day, once in the morning and once in the afternoon for between 1-2 hours each. Sometimes he'll get away with only a 45 minute nap but we can definitely tell if this is the case by the end of the day due to an instant change in his mood come dinner time. Poor kid- he's kin to his mommy and we need our sleep! It still takes a while for our little man to settle down and go to sleep, and he loves "bouncing" in his crib before bed time. When he wakes up in the morning he will usually sit up and talk for a while, then pull up to standing and bounce while yelling "Mama?" "Dada?" "Ruh Ruh (Rio)?" until one of us goes to get him. Hayes is still an early riser and definitely doesn't sleep in most days. He is usually up by 7:00 at the latest.
Food: Hayes is now eating pretty much whatever we eat, but is becoming more picky by the day, much to Mommy's dismay. He isn't a fan of most green veggies, but can be convinced to ingest a few green peas still, and canned green beans (boo hoo!!). He still loves zuchinni, carrots, squash (any kind), sweet potatoes and most fruit though, so we tend to eat that more than anything else. I can't say I'm super surprised given the fact that I prefer fruit to veggies most days... I suppose I just had high hopes that he might enjoy greens more than I do, and definitely more than his daddy! Hayes loves mac and cheese and of course, birthday cake and ice cream. He had his first taste of Blue Bell Homemade Vanilla this month thanks to his first birthday and Pappaw, and he decided that stuff is pretty good. When we ask him "Is that good?" he will smack his lips in approval and say "Mum, mum". This kid has a sweet tooth that rivals his mommy's, but I guess that shouldn't be all too surprising either! He had ribs for dinner on his actual birthday day and that kid can put those away, too. Pretty sure he ate more of them than I did! Hayes has transitioned completely off the bottle and onto sippy cups only, thanks to the help of his amazing teachers Ms. Rachel and Ms. Amalia. Don't know what we'd do without them! He has also started taking one 6 oz. cup of whole milk in place of formula in the morning, and only two 7 oz cups of formula throughout the day as we wean him off the formula for good. He has decided whole milk isn't so bad and is doing very well with the transition... fingers crossed it continues!
Personality: Cody and I joke that Hayes is definitely on his way to becoming a politician. When we are out to eat or anywhere in public for that matter, Hayes can often be found waving to strangers and holding out his hand for them to "shake". He is always the charmer with the ladies, and loves to interact with other kids. When we eat out he usually sits backwards in his high chair so that he can "talk" to the people at tables around us. This kid is a social butterfly! He has also become very inquisitive and likes to explore and understand how things are constructed, which makes his mama think he's going to be an engineer. An engineer turned president wouldn't be a bad career path, would it? ;) Hayes is very intrigued by containers, especially Mommy's makeup and will explore every inch of them to see how they are constructed. He loves to take lids off and put them back on and bang objects together to make noise. He also loves to open and close cabinet doors and bedroom doors. This kid has gotten super fast and sneaky, too... if we take our eye off of him he is gone in an instant, and probably banging on something or splashing in Rio's water bowl! Hayes is still our little buddy and while he has become good at playing independently for a little while, his social side definitely still prefers to be where we are. He has mastered scooting over the step from the family room into the formal dining room, so he can even get to me when I'm cooking in the kitchen. What talent! Hayes is very independent and has become quite resourceful in getting to whatever he wants, whenever he wants it. He is head strong and does not quit easily, and is SUPER active and busy, busy, busy. Hayes also loves to laugh and is very good at lightening the mood when Mommy or Daddy aren't feeling their most joyful. His squeal and giggle are contagious and he often ends meals with his loudest versions of these, which instantly makes us forget whatever it was that had us grumpy for that moment. :) Hayes is saying several words now, including "nuh-nuh" (no-no), "mama", "dada", "ruh ruh", "dat" (that), "pop-pop" (Pops),  and "ba-ba". He can wave bye bye and blow kisses, claps when we say "yay" or "good job" and definitely knows when he's in trouble. :) He hangs his little head and quickly gets his feelings hurt when he's being corrected nowadays, and it's SO hard for us not to laugh!
Dislikes: If there is one thing Hayes isn't a fan of these days, it's being told "no". In fact, he'll tell us right back most of the time when we initially correct him, which results in him committing said crime again and getting his hand swatted with a more stern "no". He definitely understands this process and most times won't commit the crime in question again, though he is a a bit of a stubborn one and will test us once or twice if he's feeling feisty. I am definitely the reason this little guy is headstrong, so I take full responsibility for the attitude that is displayed from time to time when he is deterred from his own agenda. It's our way or the highway, people! Haha. For the most part Hayes is a very sweet boy, but he does tell you when he isn't a fan of something. He still doesn't particularly care for the changing table, especially if it takes him away from his toys. He flails and yells until the process is over and he is no longer being forced to lay down. I can't really say that I blame him... I don't particularly like to be held down or forced to relax when I'm busy either. :) I suppose I should reiterate his distaste for most green veggies in this category as well. Eh, you win some, you lose some I suppose. 

Our Hayes is easily the most fun and entertaining person we know these days and we can't believe he has been with us for a full year! We love you little man and can't wait to watch you continue to grow and learn!

Monday, February 2, 2015

A Sweet Super Bowl Sunday

Hayes Man did it big for his first Super Bowl, y'all. Not only did we celebrate with all the football lovers across the nation, but we preceded the big game with a little smash cake photo shoot action. How else would you kick off your very first birthday month? The shoot marked the first time our Hayes had a taste of what  could arguably be considered one of Mommy's favorite foods- cake! While he wasn't super sure why Mommy and Daddy took him out into the middle of MiMi and Pappaw's orchard, without a shirt on and set the biggest serving of food he's ever been offered in front of him, he did love the taste of cake once he dug into it. I kept it simple and made a from scratch yellow cake with buttercream icing that was tinted baby blue, which was the perfect accent to add to our little man's dapper bow tie and suspender ensemble. We went full-on Pinterest with this shoot, complete with burlap banner, party hat and after-cake tub photos. It was so much fun and I can't wait to see the final product! After the photo shoot, some of the family came out to Lynn and Tami's to eat and watch the Super Bowl. I'm not sure I could really remember any of the commercials I saw, but I did enjoy the half time show tremendously and had a hard time refraining from busting a move all over the place. I guess the sound of throwback to high school Missy Elliott can do that to a girl. It was the perfect ending to a great weekend and now we anxiously await the big first birthday and all of the festivities that go along with it!

The smash cake in all its glory

"So you mean if I dig into this, or throw it off the high chair, I'm not going to get in trouble? I don't know if I believe you."

Much to our surprise, Hayes didn't dig into the cake. He instead methodically calculated each move- from taking off the cake topper, to inspecting the hole left in the cake by the topper, to then deciding it might be okay to sample a bit of icing. He finally dug in when Daddy grabbed a fist full of cake and gave it to him. I suppose we should be proud that the manners we are working on have been instilled, despite the anti climatic smash cake experience. After all, manners are long-term, people!


 Hayes loves his cousins! He reached over and hugged Claire several times on his own.

 Doing man things: watching the Super Bowl, stacking blocks and reading Green Eggs and Ham.



We were so excited Grandma and Grandpa were able to make it out for the evening!